Short clips and tips of #solidwisdom for all married couples from #BizMarriage founder Dr. Frank Banfill
" 'A coach is someone who tells you what you don't want to hear, who has you see what you don't want to see, so you can be who you always knew you could be.' - Tom Landry Coaching in marriage isn't about changing each other. It's about sharpening each other and becoming the best version of yourselves as individuals and as a couple. COACHING: Mutual support and collaboration to achieve your shared goals! It involves both partners guiding and supporting each other throughout life's journey!...Coaching done right allows you to navigate challenges together and results in stronger marriage intimacy. "
"Are you highly competitive? WIN-WIN-WIN no matter what? Just don't let your competitiveness keep you from cheering your wife on when she gets a strike right after you get a gutter ball. The more you publicly cheer for her, the stronger bond you will have. Remember, you already won the jackpot when she said, 'I do!' You don't have to WIN all the games of bowling, too!. So don't be a sore loser, and definitely never be embarrassed if she beats you. (When she beats you.) Because together, you truly are a dynamic duo, committed to NEVER letting a SPLIT be in your vocabulary! SPARE some time for bowling, then stay tuned for more STRIKES of #SolidWisdom."
"In business, a brand is more than a tagline or a logo. It's the identity of a company. But did you know that EVERY marriage also has a brand? 'Your brand is what people say about you when you're not in the room.' - Jeff Bezos. Ask yourself: Is your marriage brand positive or negative? If you don't know the answer, ask a close friend...but give them permission to be honest with you. Because #solidwisdom says if you can't handle the answer, don't ask the question! Take some time this week to talk with your spouse about your marriage brand."
"It's said that your attitude determines your altitude. This same principle applies in your marriage, too! Your attitude toward your spouse can help your relationship soar, or it can take all the air and life out of it! A positive attitude can foster love, respect, and understanding. A negative attitude can lead to discord and a damaged brand! By maintaining a positive attitude, even during conflict, you can strengthen your marriage and soar to new heights. So take some #SolidWisdom from Dr. Frank and soar to heights never imagined - at work and at home! Because attitude determines altitude. And THAT is #SolidWisdom."
#SolidWisdom from Dr. Frank: "Ahoy, Matey! It be dat time once more for #SolidWisdom from Dr. Frank. Arr! In honor o' International Talk Like a Pirate Day Yer Captain be offerin' this here #SolidWisdom.... So listen close, ye love-struck buccaneer! If ye be sailin' the seas o' marriage, and ye want it to feel like a merry shanty instead o' a storm, here be the map fer ye: KEEP THE FUN IN YER' SAILS! A marriage ain't just chores and charts, matey! Nay - tis a grand adventure! So be sure to laugh, dance, and sing like the lasses who "just want to have fun! Raise yer coffee mug, scallywag! Let love be yer compass and fun be the wind!" Let LOVE guide ye north, but let fun fill yer sails! If ya keep both steady, yer voyage will be long, merry, and full of adventure! Because life be short, but it be sweeter when shared with the lass of yer youth. And that be yer treasured #SolidWisdom from Dr. Frank!"
#SolidWisdom from Dr. Frank: "Staff meetings between the hours of 9-5 are typical for a work day. In fact, good leaders use their creativity to make staff meetings a time of enjoyment and fun for their team! Here's a Creative Pro Tip: Do you have a lot of topics to cover on your agenda? Turn your agenda into a Bingo game by using an online 'Free Bingo Card Generator.' Randomly pick the topics to relay the needed information. (Just make sure you have a little something for the winners!) Now let's bring it home. What about a staff meeting after hours? (Literally bring it home!) Yes! In your own home! Just like staff meetings are important at work for your team to stay on track, MARITAL STAFF MEETINGS are vital for your MARRIAGE to STAY ON TRACK! Schedule them at regular intervals throughout the year. Track your progress toward your goals. Make sure you're both still on the same course, with neither of you taking a detour! Stay tuned for more practical tips for Leadership and Life, coming your way next week!" #solidwisdom #working9to5 #DollyParton #Bizmarriage #strongleadersstrongermarriages #staffmeetings; #creativity #commonsense #marriagetips #couplesadvice
#SolidWisdom from Dr. Frank: "What kind of leader are you? If surveyed, would your employees say you have their back? Or are you known for your timely eruptions, as soon as they do something wrong? What about at home? Do you make sure your spouse knows you are his/her biggest fan? Do you advocate for him/her? Are you faithful to speak up at every opportunity? In life's journey, BE FAITHFUL! At work. At home. And don't be known for well-timed eruptions like Old Faithful."
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#SolidWisdom from Dr. Frank: "In life, sometimes we all can get feeling down in the dumps. Maybe it's because your favorite team is underperforming. Again. But maybe that down in the dumps feeling is because you've been carrying the weight of the world for a really long time. #SolidWisdom says to take inventory of your emotional cup. When your emotional cup is full, it often overflows with negative outcomes like anger, bitterness, or loss of sleep / appetite / energy... Be aware of these negative pitfalls and work it out together. No matter what, don't give up. Now that's #SolidWisdom." #DallasCowboysFootball; #Cowboys; #StevieWonder; #DontGiveUp; #AmericasTeam; #IJustCalledtoSayILoveYou; #BizMarriage; #strongleadersstrongermarriages; #loveandmarriage #80sMusic; #marriagetips; #couplesadvice
#SolidWisdom from Dr. Frank: "Joy is not something we randomly stumble upon. Joy is something we step into. With intention. At work. At home. At play. #SolidWisdom says to choose optimism. Even when circumstances seem less than ideal. Remember, joy isn't something you wait for. It's something you walk in together. Hand in hand. Choose to walk in the sunshine regardless of your circumstances. Together, you can not only survive, but you can thrive!" #Bizmarriage; #strongleadersstrongermarriages; #loveandmarriage; #WalkinOnSunshine; #Don'titFeelGood; #marriagetips; #couplesadvice
#SolidWisdom from Dr. Frank, 10 Commandments Edition: "1. Thou shalt listen more than thou speakest. 2. Choose your words with care. Words can wound. 3. Date thy spouse like it's day one. 4. Tackle the problem. Never each other. 5. Forgive fast. Apologize faster. 6. Choose kindness over being right. 7. Laugh often. Humor heals what pride hurts. 8. Respect each other. Never run on empty. Respect is the oxygen of love. 9. Grow together or you'll grow apart. 10. Teamwork over scoreboard. (Except when playing games! Then keep score!)" #FiveCrowns #settlersofcatan #cascadia #bizmarriage #10commandments #marriagetips #CouplesAdvice
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